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The Narcissism of Resistance
How Long Does it Take You to Get the Message? The Narcissism of Resistance A friend of mine visited the other day and brought sugary snacks into our house again, leaving them around the house for our kids, even after…
Is Your Marriage Worth Saving?
Sometimes people think I am against divorce or separation, but really that isn't true. I don't think anyone has an obligation to stay in an abusive marriage. If you want to get out and you can do that safely and…
How to Hold a Narcissist Accountable
One of the most frustrating things about living, loving or working with a person with the signs of Narcissistic Personality Disorder can be their lack of accountability. Everything that goes wrong is always someone else’s fault and no matter how…
Narcissistic Personality Disorder = Psychological Self Torture
Narcissism in Dream Analysis - Where the Nightmare Begins and Ends (Updated February 6th 2018) Introduction Today I want to share a story about narcissism in dream analysis. First I must mention how pleased and surprised we were to discover…
Prince Charming is in Rehab
The Narcissism of Waiting for Your Prince Steve loves the story of Blue Beard and I will share with you why ... Blue Beard was the richest guy in town and lived in a castle on the hill. This may…
Daddy Love
Narcissistic Men Need Positive Male Role Models One of the biggest relationship mistakes I used to make was thinking that; 1. If a man loved and cared about me. 2. He would never do things I didn’t like. The truth…
When Lost in the Wilderness — Fear is an Emotionally Intelligent Response
Once upon a time we find our brave hero, Prince Charming, saving his fair damsel from the forces of chaos and attempting to carry her away to the privileged life of her dreams ... One leg into their journey, alas,…
Because I Love You …
I am going to learn to say "no" Did the honeymoon end the day you started holding anything back? How often do you agree to things you don't feel good about simply to avoid rocking the boat? Girls are often…
Don’t Build Me Up – Don’t Put Me Down
Do you know the difference between building self esteem and priming someone's ego? “Like an addictive drug, ego is very seductive and makes us feel good, while at the same time alienating the very people in our life who really…