Read This First – Part 3
Continued from What Success Looks Like When Magic Scissors Don't Work I can't tell you the number of people who thank me for sharing the idea of magic scissors with them. (You can read about this concept and self soothing in…
Is There Hope?
(last updated Feb 10th 2021) Is Your Marriage Worth Saving? Often I get asked if I think there is hope for a person in a troubled marriage. This obviously differs from marriage to marriage, and no one can say for sure what…
Narcissist Taming – Part 1
Step 1 - Tame Yourself First If you want to tame the narcissist in your life you are going to have to do some serious work getting ready. Because taming your narcissist partner is about changing the dynamic of your…
Narcissist Taming – Part 2
(For Part - 1 in this series click this link) Step 2 - Build Trust http://youtu.be/ztg-1pBm-eo Humiliation, Abandonment and Betrayal You probably cringe just reading these words. Because psychologically they are some of humanities worst fears. And as much as…
Narcissist Taming – Part 3
End the Emotional Abuse Stop Being a Soft Target (For Part - 1 in this series click this link) http://youtu.be/jGbHgjPo4q0 Are you aware that we all regularly monitor for clues about the status of the people around us? Clues…
How to Have a Happy Marriage – Part 1
Good Marriage Advice My advice (in a nutshell) on how to have a happy marriage: "A good marriage is built on helping each other out." Now I know this advice may sound a tad twee, but in practice it's not…
How to Have a Happy Marriage – Part 2
Marriage Help In part one I covered the importance of helping your partner and what real help looks like. Today in part two I will share with you the second ingredient in my recipe for a happy marriage ... State…
How to Have a Happy Marriage – Part 3
Save Your Marriage by Losing Some Emotional Weight Today I will continue with my recipe for a happy marriage from part 2 in this series. Or you can click the link here to begin at - How to have a…