Movie Transcript
Steve: Hi Welcome to The Love safety Net Love Boat Cruise!
In this the first leg of our journey we will be exploring the sometimes balmy, tranquil and sometimes stormy seas of love. That most mysterious and powerful emotion that some spend their lives seeking, yet springs up around us as common as blades of grass . . .
What is love? And what is this emotion good for?
Steve: At one extreme, we have sexual attraction which is primarily chemistry which starts with the eyes and, this might surprise you, also your nose.
Kim: That’s right! And this is why we strongly advise you beware of internet dating . . . if you are looking for a committed and solid sexual relationship.
Steve: For women especially, it is very important that you get the chance to smell a man’s pheromones; to choose the right partner.
Kim: This is about compatibility on many levels more sophisticated than our conscious mind can register, including the health of the children that will come from this potential union.
Steve: So, if you are looking for a sexual partner . . . start by eating healthy, including plenty of raw food and clean water. Then turn off your computer and get out and meet real live people in the flesh.
Kim: There are salt based deodorants that you should start using that won’t mask your true scent.
Steve: Dance classes are a great place to meet potential partners where you will get to get close enough to smell each other and see if the chemistry is right before you get to know each other better.
Kim: It is also important that you can talk to each other, feel that you can be yourself and don’t have to act. There is nothing worse than going out with someone for awhile and then realizing you have nothing to say to each other.
Steve: Check if your families share common values too. If she is from a family of intellectuals that despise sport and your family are always tuned into a game . . . you are going to have some hurdles to tackle down the line, in what kind of atmosphere prevails in your house on the weekends. This might end up more important than you realize.
Kim: We have some other tips, too detailed to talk about here, for the guys out there that want to check they’ve got their sex education straight. In my eBook :”Honey for the Bees”, I thought it was time that someone gave you guys a break and let you know the game from how the girls see it . . . I mean, how can you ever win if you don’t know the rules?
Steve: Sexual attraction creates very powerful bonds between people – no matter what some guys pretend. That is what love does. It attaches people in a way that forms families and communities that should stand by, support and protect each other. So, don’t mess with fire by believing that sex is as disposable as many people would have you believe.
Kim: Nothing hurts like having your heart broken, and nothing damages you more deeply long term, than you becoming hardened when it comes to love and sex.
Steve: Play this one by the right rules and you will be making the first and most important step to a happy life.
Kim: And if you are not young but haven’t got it right yet, it is never to late to learn. Even very bad marriages can be redeemed with the right personal training in relationship skills. If what you have been doing isn’t working, maybe it’s time to learn a new trick or two.
Knowing your own worth as a person, and not judging this by how others treat you, is one of the most important ingredients for a happy marriage.
If you frequently feel put down and disrespected by others and don’t know how to respond without making the situation worse, you are not ready to pair up with someone for the long haul . . . If that advice has come too late, and you already have, you will need some urgent “catch up remedial classes in attracting lasting love”.
We have a great program which will teach you the basics called ‘The Love safety Net Workbook’ which will get you ready fast (or even patch up), what may have been a bad start.
Steve: If we fixed our marriage, believe mem there is hope for you! We did it wrong for over ten years, before Kim realized it was time to learn a new approach.
Kim: Follow your nose for sure(laughing) . . . but you will also need solid relationship skills or you may be in for a very unpleasant ride!
Steve: Thanks for watching part one on the topic of Love in the Love Safety Net Love Boat Cruise.
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