The Narcissism of Resistance
How Long Does it Take You to Get the Message? The Narcissism of Resistance A friend of mine visited the other day and brought sugary snacks into our house again, leaving them around the house for our kids, even after…
Is Your Marriage Worth Saving?
Sometimes people think I am against divorce or separation, but really that isn't true. I don't think anyone has an obligation to stay in an abusive marriage. If you want to get out and you can do that safely and…
How to Hold a Narcissist Accountable
One of the most frustrating things about living, loving or working with a person with the signs of Narcissistic Personality Disorder can be their lack of accountability. Everything that goes wrong is always someone else’s fault and no matter how…
When Lost in the Wilderness — Fear is an Emotionally Intelligent Response
Once upon a time we find our brave hero, Prince Charming, saving his fair damsel from the forces of chaos and attempting to carry her away to the privileged life of her dreams ... One leg into their journey, alas,…
Don’t Build Me Up – Don’t Put Me Down
Do you know the difference between building self esteem and priming someone's ego? “Like an addictive drug, ego is very seductive and makes us feel good, while at the same time alienating the very people in our life who really…
Narcissistic Personality Disorder in Your Marriage
Is a lying cheating spouse really the incurable disorder a few professionals insist it to be? The symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder are hard to tackle and extremely resistant to influence, but does this really make the heartache a puzzle…
Share Your Story
You are not alone ... Narcissism and Codependence are patterns of behaviour passed on from generation to generation. If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, these bad relationship habits may seem like normal and healthy behaviour to you…