Inner Connections 5 – Logic
Your Goal and Strategy
Continued from: What You Want I will add a few more questions below each point before I open this up for your comments and questions . . . 1. Are you clear about what you want in life? - Are…
Negotiating With Your Family
The Best Ways of Negotiating Within Family Hierarchies A research paper on Tactics of hierarchy negotiation (from The University of Texas at Austin and the Norwegian Institute of Public Health, Oslo, Norway) Opens by stating that . . . "Since resources flow to…
Is my Family Dysfunctional?
It's all about sharing . . . What determines if a family is functional or dysfunctional?; How successful members are at school or in their careers? How politely they speak to each other? How often they all fight and argue? Saying "shut up"…
Too Many Cooks
Baking an Austrian yoghurt cake for breakfast this morning, I thought back to Steve and my bad old days, when the kitchen became the area of the house were symptoms of our Narcissistic / Codependent Marriage often played out the worst.…
The New Black is Stability
Continued from Too Many Cooks Casting my eye around my study/bedroom this morning I noticed that ignoring the computers, a stranger might think they were in the study of some creative mind from the 1800’s. Steve and the kids love…
Making Supportive Connections
When I was a child you would always find me sitting and watching the other kids play from the sidelines. I didn't feel left out, but instead very happy to sit watching. When eventually the teachers forced me to join in,…
The Smart Way to Forgive
Continued from Julius Caesar: A Hero for Our Times We can see that Julius Caesar was well loved from the cult of Divus Julius which sprung up after his death. Likewise, by the fresh flowers that still litter his funeral pyre, we see…
What is Your Attachment Style?
How Do You Make Friends? Our attachment style describes how we respond to other people. Which is your attachment style? - Moving away from people. - Moving towards people. - Moving against people. On the Sidelines The first two in…